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I started this post earlier, like about a week ago, but didnt know how to continue. It’s like so many things that i can write about, to share my opinions and thoughts, but the next second it just vanish in the air like i’ve never even have such thought.
Was wanting to write about a long-distance-relationship that i’ve known with this couple which last for 9 years.. neither long nor short period of time. What has time shaped the couple into? The environment changed, the feelings, the love, the worldview, the culture.. so many more.
But then again, i’m in no position to write things about LDR. How do you define LDR? Long could be a very far distance which is only accesible via flights across the straits, or even further across the oceans. It could also mean different States the couple stay in, but generally, it means a relationship which sustains in the endurance of unable to meet that often.
Of 100 cases i’ve met, i guess you know the outcome. It turns sour after a couple of years, or even just months. How many people out there can bear with the fact that distance kills? Why is that?
We live in a totally different world. We see different things everyday. We meet our colleagues/friends, we share the ups and downs in life with the people around us. But when the dearest to you isnt right next to you, do you still have the exact same feeling which you were undergoing the evening before with some lame jokes while you are now sharing it over Skype?
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i’m just emo, dont quite feel like / not knowing how to resume the writing.
‘你相信天长地久的爱情吗’
‘天长地久不是以时日来计算，长的，可以是一辈子，但却无法让人懂得去爱。短的，哪怕是一阵子，也可以很刻骨铭心地让人心甘情愿去守着一个诺言’。
It gives me the inspiration i need.. i want .. and have been searching for.
* on the other note, something is wrong with my blog comments moderation. sorry to all my friends if you see your previous comments have been removed- wasnt my fault- i could see it in the moderation column though i’ve approved- and it’s still not being displayed. Thank you everyone for your kind concern 
