I wonder if people are born to be narcissistic.
Probably Narcissistic Personality Disorder has been a pretty common syndrome among young girls and boys nowadays. They dont have the qualifications- be it physically or mentally, but they are expecting people to treat them as if they are a top star.
I’m now in an event line. This industry, just likemost other jobs out there, is something that we wanna maximise our incomes with the most limited expenses and still be able to produce excellent results to clients. We can have a thousandhours to do the preparation, but its only within that split second on the event day which might screw the whole thing up.
If its blown, we are gone. If it turns out ‘good’, client asks for a better one. If it turns out best, we dont get much credit either.
Event is a team work. There’s no one who can run an event ‘alone’, thinking that lone ranger earns most and ‘I dont need you!’. We are talking about coordination work here. We are talking about team work. Even if i’m the floor manager i would still need my technical team to back me up, my backstage crews to get ready the performances, my runners to pass the props, my usherettes to elegantly walk near the VIPs to inform any contingency.
Some girls are borned to be pretty. They dont need much make-over, they have big sparkling eyes, sharp nose, fair skin, slim and tall, and yes, they get most jobs we offer. They are the ones most clients are looking for - as the society now has been poisoned with such thoughts that ‘tall + fair = pretty’.
It makes them arrogant, it makes their ‘price’ much higher. Is price equivalent to pride? I always wonder.
Some people dont have such borned qualities. They dont have the angel face with the perfect combination of bewitchful body, they dont have the 170cm model height unless they have to wear a 6 inches or more high heels shoes. But they dream. Yes, each and everyone of us dreams. They dream to be like the models one day- they fall so deep into such dream even though they are now 20 over years and have no hopes in growing any ‘better’.
I cant be giving a model’s compatible payment to someone who is not even near to a model, for the sake of making you happy or realizing your dreams. I am now talking about my maximum profit - and i’m not gonna spoilt the economy market with such a deteriorating standard.
But you, you are nothing near to what i want. Who are you to be so sarcastic. The low payment means i dont need any qualifications from you.You dont need to speak or present yourself. All you have to do is standby, and yes just standby. Are you expecting to get the same payment as those who are on stage models who are doing cat walk?
Look at yourself. If you have ever got into any jobs you will know what ashame is. You are not well-versed in any of the Malaysian dialect, you cannot communicate fluently to anyone out there with the most perfect English, and all your talkings are with some foul languages.
But here you are, telling everyone about the low payment, complaining about how event people mis-use your ‘talents’ by placing you just to ’standby’??
If you dont like the job, if you are not hungry for jobs that i offer, you can choose not to apply. I dont even know you in real, i dont givea damn if you dont take me asa friend. After all, you are any bypasser in my life and so am i to you.
Now that you need the money. You told me you wanted the job and willingly to learn. But in the event you were bad-mouthing me as if we have known each other for long, hence you know every single bits of me!
I didnt fire you off straight away. If i were to argue with you, i’m just deteriorating my standard to where your standpoint is. You ruin your own image, you got into the ‘black list’, and still wishing me to hire you again for jobs?
I may be kind in some ways, but definitely not this time to forgive you and giving you another chance to spoil my event.
I’m not a Saint. I forgive you for being ‘innocent’, but i dont plan to take the risk.
Have fun in your own land, have fun searching for jobs if you think any agents out there are willingly to try you out.
Sincerely,
The Ms Bad KJ
