kJ’s paradise~

sigh. I’ve no regret to take up ‘Gender Studies’ as my minor studies in University Malaya throughout my three years of degree pursuing there. I know so much of Human Rights and how oppressed women were (and still, are) and how hopeless it can be when it comes to issue like ’sexual harassment’ and ‘domestic violence’.

I’ve just encountered one, and have blogged about it. The next thing i’m going to write in order to release my dissatisfaction is my encounter with our beloved policemen who�are here to protect the grassroots (they do, dont you think so? )

I walked into Damansara’s police station 2 hours ago at 10.15pm, after my exam paper in UM.

When i mentioned how this guy harrassed me through phone while he’s masturbating, the respectful policeman was smiling all the way and asked ”oh, with sound effect as well?”

I dont find it amusing at all and i supposed he might think this is something ’shameful’. Well, glad�i was still able to�paint him�the whole scenario and successfully�lodge the 2nd police report of my life. At least, he’s helpful enough to make some calls to the headquarter as well as the KelanaJaya police station to find out who’s the person-in-charge for sexual harassment cases.

Good thing was, the other policeman told me ‘i got harassed because i’m beautiful’ (hmmm?) but the worst thing was, they made me to go to Kelana Jaya Police station at 11.15pm to speak to another Inspector.

Reached, waited, and waited, AND WAITED. so it’s 12am midnight! The Inspector came out to see me and told me to come back the next day as he has too many cases to handle currently. Sigh. It’s Labor Day tomorrow, not that i need to rest but i’m quite sure they will put me to ‘wait’ again.

Anyway there were really some lil small incidents like the policeman was busy photostating papers while telling me to ‘wait’; These bunch of policemen told me the solution to this case is ‘DONT ANSWER THE PHONE‘ and also ‘I’M SURE IT’S PRANK CALL FROM YOUR FRIENDS’ — you know .. it’s all craps.

Well i dont understand why are women the ‘victims’ to these kind of cases. I mean, dont tell me there’s no warning or anything can be done to these kind of perverts while they are happily disturbing others, whilst the victims (women) can only choose to be silent or have to ‘run’ away by ignoring the calls.

I was told this will not fall under sexual harrassment cases as the guy did not touch me physically. Isnt this a loophole in our Malaysia Legitimate System? I mean, what other ways i can sue him if he keeps disturbing me?� The only related�Act is only Criminal Law and it will be inspected under this Act.

or, i have to wait till he comes to TOUCH me and hence i have proof that he has sexually harassed me??

what the …

Sigh. Can anyone do anything about it? or tell me what to do?

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-kJ-

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I’m going to lodge a police report right after this blog post.

That idiotic pervert called again, this time at 3pm.

He sounded normal, i supposed he wasnt masturbating (again). I calmly asked him where did he get my number, he said ‘a friend introduced me to you’.

wtf? is that a joke? Introduce me as in? i’m a call-girl or something?

I’m going to lodge a police report as i feel that i’ve been mentally harrassed by such people. If my mobile network operator is not able to help me to detect this guy even with the police report, i will seriously gonna take some actions, with my own ways.

and to this Steven(?) guy, if you are reading my blog, let me warn you. I have your number and your real name.

I’M NOT AFRAID OF YOU.

+60164657948 TAN HUAT T*OOI

-kJ-

I�dont understand why is there such people who will randomly call up people while they are masturbating.

and i also dont understand why is there such people who will call up someone that�he knows directly/ indirectly while�he is�masturbating.

No this post is not going to talk about my analysis on whatever psychological topics i’ve done. I’m gonna talk about an incident i encountered just a while ago.

Was running errants the whole morning, came home during lunch hour feeling a lil exhausted, and was really glad lunch was ready (home sweet home eh). Took a few spoonful of rice with my favourite dishes, and my phone rang again.

016�465�7948.

a totally unknown number — i dont supposed the caller is my friend (i just had that idea that he/she might be some random callers who wanna know about the freelance job which i offered last week). So the conversation started off with the normal ‘hello’.

kJ: Hello.

Steven: Hello. Is that KhaiJia? This is Steven. (Still panting).

kJ: Yes speaking. Who’s that again?

Steven: Steven. Remember who i’m?

kJ: What’s up?�(scanning through my brain hdd trying to figure out WHICH stephen was that, and finally decided to say No cause i supposed i can get a hundred people with the same name if i were to shout this name on a busy street)

Steven: (said something but more of mumbling)

kJ: what? I cant hear you clearly. (and trying to figure out why does he have to call me while he is walking upstairs/ uphill/ doing some heavy work)

Steven: (said something again)

*anyway this ‘WHAT?’ and the ‘answer’ repeated thrice, and i’ve finally decided to give up wanting to know what he’s said since i was still busy chewing my lunch to feed my starving stomach)

Just before i wanted to tell him please call back later, suddenly…. i heard ——

Steven: I’m masturbating.. arghh.. help me ..�

wtf. I off the call without hesitation but later regret for not scolding him some foul languages to at least awake him up from his whatever�orgasm he can reach by listening to kJ’s boyish-man-alike-sexy-voice.

Come to think of it, who would have revealed my number to this Steven? I still cannot figure out WHICH steven exactly that was. I mean, the whole conversation was in Mandarin (Chinese) and he actually called my Chinese name instead of ‘kJ’ or ‘KhaiJia’.

If it’s ‘kJ’ , he might have gotten my number somewhere over the internet or through some freelancing jobs. People/ friends who still call my Chinese name are either my primary school mates, high school friends, and maybe some college friends those days when i was still in TAR college.

So who the hell this Steven is ? He might have given me a random name, but the number is real.

ah. STALKER!

Sigh. If i get a chance to see who this guy is, i might give him two tight slaps on his face for ruining my lunch.

mates, help me out? Track this number +6016�4657948�if he happens to be in your phone book list.

and sorry to all my ‘Steven/ Stephen/ Steve’ friends who just so happen to have the same name with this pervert. Your faces popped out in my mind the moment he said ‘I’m Steven’.

lol.

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-kJ-

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Don’t be overshocked — i’m not referring to my exam. (Well, maybe it almost failed me but yet, i survived)

Told ya i will be off to try my luck on the RM100k tv reality show, and yes i went this morning. Damn it i should have paid more attention in my chemistry classes back in high school times and i regret to the most that i slept my own sweet time hours by hours during those long boring chemistry classes.

and so.. yes you got it right. I didnt know how to answer questions related to Chemistry�Periodicable table, neither would i know the sequences of our beloved planet, and, sigh. One last question which was being shot was related to Disneyland.

Hell knows i never watch cartoons. Ok to my readers, yes i’m ’slow’ in whatever cartoons or animation movies. According to my mum, she wanted to avail ‘tv cartoons series’ to babysit me while she needed to go to the kitchen and sort out the dinner, and all i did was crying non-stop. She ended up have to switch it�off and i could just ‘babysit myself’ quietly on the sofa without giving much troubles.

and that was, 20 years back. Hello? i was only 3 years and i started to show my hatre towards anime and hence, you cant expect me to know Sesame Street, Disneyland characters and stuffs.

Oh gosh. So there it goes. Thank god i know JK Rowling wrote Harry Potter. But that wasnt a question to me — it was to the contestants in some other categories. LOL.

No pictures were taken — simply because of�2 reasons.

#1 i think we werent allowed to do so.

#2 i didnt bring my camera lahhh.

So, stay tuned�to see how silly�kJ was in�NTV7 Deal or No deal English�series, every weekend at 8pm!

Love,

kJ�

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Brand new world. Brand new day.

I’ve got thousand million of different blog addresses, and have been shifting from one to another. I’ve always ignite people’s anger, and have also gained some friendships over the net.

I’m new to Wordpress. Everything seems to be new, but the words are genuine. I’m starting to explore and this brand new website, thanks to JieMing who is willingly to contribute his time to help me.

It’s gonna be more-than-a-blog website, you can have a chance to take a closer peep into the innerself of khaijia, and i do hope it’s gonna be my business platform too. =)

Though not a new-to-blog user, but i’m still short of vocabs at the moment. Perhaps it’s still my exam season and i know i’m supposed to be studying.

Anyway mates, i will be going for Deal or No Deal audition tomorrow. If i get to succeed among all other 5 contestants, i stand a chance to be on stage to ‘open up cases’. Stay tuned, i will keep you updated, for sure.

Love,

kJ